Monday, March 31, 2008

simple tips to get and keep a girlfriend

Hey guys, here are some things you should do to win over a girl's heart. (And this is right from the source, a girl herself)

1. be nice to everyone (including animals), not just your crush. Girls notice these things.

2. Make excuses to talk to her. She'll appreciate that you’re going out of your way to talk to her. (I.e. ask her 'what time is it?’ to borrow a pencil or pen etc.)

3. When asking her out, don't be afraid of her saying no, if she does, chances are she won't be mean about it. But even if she doesn't like you right now, she IS flattered that you’re paying attention to her. We all love to be noticed. She may say yes at a later time. Ask AGAIN

4. If you have a girlfriend, include her in your life, don't exclude her. If you play sports, ask her to come to one of your games and meet the team. Introduce her to your family. Do things that YOU like to do, except, with her. She wants to be a part of your life, not watching in from the outside.

5. Flattery is acceptable, and appreciated. BUT ONLY IF YOU MEAN IT. Notice little things about her, don't just say 'you're beautiful' all the time. If she wears her hair differently, tell her you like it. If she gets a new pair of shoes, notice them. Also, flatter her personality.

6. We all love surprises, they make us feel special and loved. I didn't say PARTIES though. If your planning a surprise party, ask friends and family if she likes that kind of stuff first.

7. Innocently touch her whenever you can. If your nervous, try starting out by touching her arms or shoulder when you talk or when you're walking. See how she reacts and go further if you get the 'all clear'.

8. Last of all. Just love her and let her love you. That's all she really wants. To love and be loved.

Friday, March 14, 2008

Find Love On The Internet The Easy Way

Leave No Stone Unturned

Okay, you do not want to find love under a rock, but you do want to exhaust all options when you are seeking to find love. By looking on the internet, you can find many different dating sites. By joining several, you have the opportunity to meet many different people.

In addition to the internet dating sites, check out some of the meeting sites as well. There are hundreds of different ways to meet people online and even to find love. Leave no stone unturned when it comes to finding the love of your life.

Post An Accurate Profile

Some people post photos of themselves that depict themselves 20 years younger. When they meet people on the dating sites, they wonder why they never get asked to go on a second date. Posting an inaccurate profile only cheats you out of the opportunity to meet someone who will like you for yourself. When preparing your profile, make sure that you post a recent photo of yourself and give an accurate description of your likes and dislikes.

Do Not Jump Into A Relationship Until You Are Sure

While most people want to meet someone with whom they can share a relationship on the internet, there are those who are just looking for a good time. Make sure that you know the difference between the two types of people and allow your intentions to be known. Do not allow yourself to get carried away because you want a relationship if the person whom you are dating is not interested in the same thing or you are setting yourself up for heartbreak.

Make sure that the other person is on the same page as you when it comes to finding a relationship.If you want to find love, the internet is just as good of a place to look as anywhere else. Here you can find many other people who are also looking for love. Make sure that you know what you want and go out and get it.

Saturday, March 1, 2008

Why Do You Get Attracted To Someone?

Look around you and you will find that most of your friends are looking for different kinds of partners. Somebody wants a partner with lots of money. Somebody wants a partner with lots of sex appeal. Somebody wants a partner with great looks. Somebody wants a partner who is a genius forget the looks. Somebody wants a partner who will only love him or her. And so it goes. Why there is so much dissimilarity in partner preference amongst friends? Friends who are so alike each other in their choices differ greatly when it comes to choice of partners, why?

Childhood-
Most of us have childhoods where we missed something. It may have been love, or money or something which we felt that other children got, but we did no t Some of us are attracted to one of our parents- mother or father. Some of us developed childhood preferences according to what we were told. This is good and this is bad. These childhood experiences play a major role in our choice of partner.

Genes-
Our genes not only determine our body features but also our mental make-up. Some of us are very intelligent. Others manage to come somewhere at the bottom of the class. Some understand anything in a jiffy while some others never understand whatever you try. Some of us are emotionally very weak and some of us can take emotional blows with ease. Why so much difference? It is all written in our genes. Similarly our genes decide what we like.

Now I hope that I have been able to shed some light upon why we like a particular kind of a partner. If you wish you can try a small experiment. Ask your friends about their favorite celebrity. The difference in answers would be quite revealing. I hope you get me.

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